5 Ways Not To Announce Your Engagement On Social Media (In Gifs)
As the holiday season kicks into high gear, it’s only natural that thoughts turn to love and commitment. For those who’ve recently popped the question or are eagerly awaiting a proposal, there’s no shortage of excitement. However, for others, the idea of scouring the market for the perfect engagement ring can be daunting, especially if they’re on a budget. That’s why it’s worth considering going secondhand.
After all, used engagement rings often have stories to tell and can be just as beautiful as their brand-new counterparts.
For those who might sell a used engagement ring, there are usually three reasons: divorce, lack of wear, or to upgrade to an even more stunning piece. Whatever the motivation, there’s no denying that a secondhand ring can be a unique and thoughtful way to celebrate your love story.
So, go ahead and give your wallet a break – you might just find the perfect symbol of your commitment hiding in plain sight.
Before it’s official
Before jumping the gun on engagement, let’s take a step back and ensure we’re not getting ahead of ourselves. I’m not familiar with the term ‘premature engagement-ulation,’ but the sentiment is clear: wait until the situation is official before taking any action. If you’re speculating about potential developments, it’s natural to start drafting a post in anticipation – just refrain from publishing prematurely.
Without letting your partner know
The wait is over! It’s officially time to share your exciting news with the world. Before you hit post, don’t forget to give your partner a courtesy heads up – this way, they’re prepared for the impending flood of congratulatory messages. If you have a close-knit circle of friends and family who will want to offer their best wishes, be sure to spread the word before the public at large gets wind of it through social media.
During someone else’s hard time
When sharing personal news with others, it’s often wise to consider the timing and tone. For instance, if someone else has recently experienced a significant setback like a breakup or job loss, it may be best to wait before announcing your own good fortune. This avoids giving off an ‘I don’t care about your struggles’ impression, which can be detrimental to relationships.
By taking a moment to reflect on how others might receive the news, you can ensure your announcement is well-received and doesn’t inadvertently come across as insensitive.
With a (super) gratuitous ring shot
The art of capturing a proposal moment lies in the subtlety. While a traditional shot of the couple smiling with the ring is always charming, it’s the little details that make it truly special. Perhaps a warm embrace with the ring subtly visible behind the partner adds a touch of intimacy. Alternatively, a close-up of the stunning 3-carat cushion cut surrounded by luxurious elements like glitter and mink can be breathtaking – but don’t forget to include your partner in the shot!
The key is finding that perfect balance between showcasing the ring and capturing the love and joy shared in that moment.
RIGHT after someone else
As the proposal dust settles, you might find yourself surrounded by fellow newly-engaged couples, eager to make their announcements. If someone beats you to the punch and shares their news just when you were planning to post yours, take a deep breath and let it slide. Why not? Give them a virtual high-five, acknowledging their excitement and enthusiasm. And when you’re ready, don’t forget to share this link with them – they’ll be grateful for the resource!
With so many couples celebrating at once, it’s the perfect opportunity to spread some love and joy.
DO announce it if you want to
While sharing your life updates on social media is a great way to connect with friends and family, don’t feel obligated to follow every single tip. Instead, think of ways to make your announcements more engaging, such as adding an unexpected twist or using humor to lighten the mood. For example, you could share a funny animated gif or post a photo of yourself celebrating with a beloved pet – like I do with my cat! The key is to have fun and be authentic in your approach.
And don’t forget to follow up with a story about how things went down afterwards.
16 wonderful and weird wedding proposals (that totally worked!)
We’re suckers for a great proposal tale. While we adore intimate, meaningful, and sentimental proposals, there’s something undeniably charming about an offbeat, quirky, and downright unconventional one. Over the years, we’ve come across some truly unique and memorable wedding proposals that have left us smiling from ear to ear. In this post, we’re taking a journey down the rabbit hole of geeky, romantic, and wonderfully weird proposals that will leave you in awe.
